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writes:I don't have anyone at uni who wants to do anything with me. I have tried every approach going, at the start i was busy everyday morning and evening and now I have started to notice it was always me organising and so i decided to stop and see if anyone would actually come to me and invite me, its now been two weeks of sitting indoors doing nothing. I really feel lonely, my housemates never leave the house so i cant do anything with them either. I have depression so sitting indoors all day does not help with that and im now re considering university, I feel so lonely and I just dunno what to do. Ive tried being nice , Ive tried playing it cool, Ive tried inviting and ive tried not inviting, now , even when i invite they say no and I just cant seem to get anywhere. Ive spoken to my housemates about this cos we are close but they dont change, they still dont even want to leave the house. what do i do? it sounds lame but all i want is friends? how on earth do you make friends who actually invite you places?!?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2013): don't try and be someone else because People can see through that but
at the same time don't come across to desperateo be their friend. And if the people that you were trying to be friends with exclude you then they
arent even worth it or if you have just got to know them then they may feel that they don't know you well enough yet and if they don't then forget them and meet other people. But if you feel that your depression
is a big cause in this then you need get what ever help that you need to get for this because it would make a big difference and you would be a much happher person. So think about where you feel is best for you and where is going to help you more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2013): Why don't you try attending some art classes? or any recreational activities. In this way you can get to know people with your similar interests. It is hard to find friends with the same or similar interests. But if all what you want to do is have a good time you should try meeting new people at new places like museums or any other extracurricular activities.
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