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writes:oh jeez...just did something veeeery interesting. some of you will remember the guy that i mentioned in earlier questions (the 'bad' one). well, i got slightly very hammered, and ended up making out with him (and going onto more, but we stopped), and he now thinks that we can do it any time. i really like him, and i want to do stuff with him, but i would prefer it a lot if luke and i were together...but we only see eachother every couple of months. so what now? PLEASE don't say that i never should have done it in the first place, that's not helpful!!xxx mimi Reply to this Question
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reader, Doodles.x.  +, writes (31 August 2008):
 Heyy.You should ask him if he wants a relationship, but you'll have to think carefully if you want to try and make a long distance relationship work with him. If you are both prepared to have a go at a relationship, then you can work it out between you both and then you'll be together so when you do meet, you wont feel wrong or awkward about it if you go all the way with himGood luck chick.xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 August 2008):
Well he doesn't want a long distance thing so he just wants a Make-Out-Buddy... like a sex friend but without the sex.
If you think you are emotionally strong enough to separate your feelings from that and not get hurt when he treats you as a bit of fun and even wants to stop because he's got a girlfriend, then go for it.
If you think it will mess you up because you want a relationship with this guy then don't do it. Tell him you want a boyfriend and not something casual.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): I think you should ask him if he wants to be in a relationship with you first, after that, decide what you want to do.
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