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writes:Hey all, Im having sort of a problem with a physical issue. I'm 24 yrs old and am 5'1" and 92pounds, im proportioned very well according to people: i have toned body, not fat, etc. Though I feel that my chest size is a bit small, cause on my small petite frame my butt is the thing men/guys notice. (if I am to compare my body to someone: it is similar to eva longoria's). For couple years now, I have been trying trying to gain weight so i can have a lil bit bigger chest, but it is impossible. I have seen my physician about this, had blood tests done and im just fine, and i just have a fast metabolism. I have been on birth control, and also weight gainers and worked out but nothing helps. I eat many times per day, and focus on having lots of carbs.Since,I think that my chest is small, I have been thinking for couple of years to get implants (something reasonable in size, just by like one or two cups than my size).Well, I have a fiancee and he knows how I feel about my chest size. He says I look great and says I dont need implants, but my chest is tiny compare to other females. So, when we are out and if there is a female with a bigger chest, somehow he will manage to glance at it. It is not because of him, I want the implants but because of myself, so I feel confident and happy about my attribute(s). But he is against this. While he goes to the gym and works on his body and he looks just great with it and that makes him happy. But, I cant do something like the implants that would make me happy. It feels like, if I had them, he wouldnt like that men/guys would glance at me then, while he glances himself at other women whom have bigger boobs.Is there any other way that I can increase my chest size? What shoul I do? What would you do if you were me?Thanks a bunch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): hiya im in the same position and i think that if it makes you happy then you should do it, you dont sound like youre about to have a mental breakdown instead you sound like youve had a long time to think about all the pros and cons. I feel the same im 26 and ive had two children and no longer feel sexy or atractive and i have been unhappy with my chest size for a while and have decided that i will be having surgery in the next few months and i have no doubt that i will feel like woman again. it is all about how you feel to yourself i personaly had more confidence with a bigger chest so it is not always about other people or pressure or insecurites
i hope that you do what ever makes you happy you only have one life so why spend it being misrable
good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): Goodness, getting implants is not going to be a magic answer if you have underlying insecurity issues, it'll only mask them, but the insecurities will always be there. Don't do this just so your bf will look at you. If he looks at other women with larger breasts, tell him to stop doing it, in your presence. Set a boundary-tell him how it makes you feel. But, be happy with what you have. You have qualities and looks that others don't have. You are a petite 95 pounds, with a fast metabolism that can burn excess calories, like wildfire. Sheesh, girl! Don't we all wish we had that. lol. I know women who are 5'10 and weigh 160 pounds, who are comical, witty, intelligent self-confident strong women, whose men absolutely adore them...real breasts and all. Who you are comes from the core of your heart and your mind. It's your confidence, your zest for life, it's your graciousness and compassion that bespeak who you truely are. So...Love yourself...for who you are.
There..done my little speech. Something tells me you will do this anyways. Then all I have to say is,
bigger breasts may pump up your self-esteem for a while but care and maintenance of the implants may not be worth the trouble or expense. Have you really done your research, especially the risks part, before deciding? Talk to a board certified plastic surgeon and ask a lot of questions. If there are health risks, you have to decide if your vanity is more important than your overall health. If you think you can live with them, then go ahead. Some concerns that you should think about is: I have been told by a doctor myself, that 70% of all breast implants leak to some extent? Some people scar terribly. Make sure you aren't one of these people. If they leak or become lumpy, in order to fix them, you will have to have another surgery...which means more pain and recovery. Just really do your research before you plunk down 4000.00 bucks to have some implants put in your body. Your choice, your decison...good luck with what you decide, hun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): Hi sweetie, its a shame you feel unhappy about your chest, I would give you mine if I could.
Although you need to be happy in your own skin, you do need to take your partners feelings into consideration aswell, what if you had surgery and still felt unhappy or your partners feelings changed towards you?
On the otherhand your partner should stand by you whatever decission you make. Perhaps try getting to the bottom of why he is against it, maybe his worries lie deeper than other people looking at you? If he wanted someone with bigger boobs surely he wouldnt have asked you to marry him? I think reguardless of size all men look at other womens boobs anyway.
Consider all of your options, if I were you I would stay natural and try to be happy with what you have got. take care x
There are quite a few herbal options to increase your chest size naturally, how good they are I dont know but it has to be worth trying before having invasive surgery. Also there are pills you can buy over the internet that naturally increase your chest, they may be worth looking into aswell.
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