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writes:I'm straight, with some bi-curious. I want to know what it is like to suck cock, to give a hand-job. To get sucked by another man, get hard from another man. I want to experiment, like dip my feet, but not dive in head first. I want to experiment with my best friend, but I don't know how to approach it, like how he will handle it. I think he is curious as well, but I don't know. I don't want to ask him, and have him say no, but I want to ask so I can experiment.Please help!!
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reader, masterofdestiny999 +, writes (16 September 2008):
 I know that this question is somewhat old. The last answer was back in July. Nonetheless, assuming it's not too late, I'm gonna give you my answer. Personally, I say just go for it. Don't beat around the bush. Just come out and say what you wanna do and see what happens. Maybe it's just the gambler in me, but I think it's a risk worth taking. And if he tells all the peole you know, then he ain't a real friend. But seriously, just throw it out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): I was sorta in your situation when I was young. Honestly, to answer your question better, i'd need to know your age right now. I'll give you 2 specific examples on how I became sexually involved with other guys.
First time happened when I was in 5th grade. I had a friend stay the night with me pretty often. At first it was innocent. I have 2 brothers who are younger than me so when we would have sleepovers my brothers would be in the bedroom and me and my friend would pull the couch out into a bed. Well, one night we were playing truth or dare. It was innocent at first. About 5-6 turns into it I started taking dares only. He dared me to take my clothes off. I suspect he didn't think I would. I did. I got completely naked. He just sorta looked at my penis only after that. My next turn I dared him to do the same thing. He stripped naked.
There we were both naked. He then dared me to suck his dick. So I did and liked it. I then dared him to do the same thing. The game sorta ended and we kept sucking each other off for another hour or so. After that, we would still have the sleepovers. He would ask if I wanted to play truth or dare again. Only from then on we didn't actually play the game. We would get naked and fool around with each other. We just used the game as an excuse to have sex.
My next example was on the verge of my divorce. I had joined a local yahoo group for gay men. I posted an ad of sorts. I explained that I was inexperienced and was looking for someone in my city to hook up with. I got a response that night from someone that I knew (about 20 years older than me) but I didn't realize it. I went to his house and we talked about everything. I was nervous as hell. The entire time we were talking he had one arm around me and was fondling my cock with his other one. I wanted to just jump him I was so horny but I was afraid to. In the middle of a conversation he leaned forward and kissed me. He unzipped my pants and went down on me. Now, I've never turned down a blowjob ever. We quickly decided to take it into his bedroom to be more comfortable. We got undressed and fooled around. That first night we didn't have intercourse. We did everything else but penetrate.
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reader, cherrybutton  +, writes (10 July 2008):
its pretty logical that ur curious! y not! but i think you should wait. there's no rush with these things, and waiting may confirm your desires anyway, you may get over these curiositys or you may decide that it is men that you find attractive, either way, time will tell and you dont want to ruin a friendship at such a young age.
if your curious to how your friend feels, mayb mention watching gay porn n c how he reacts, but i really dont think its wise to do anything physical between you at the moment.
you've got your whole life to experiment but its not wise to start now as your bodys still developing and u may regret it in the future. think carefully!
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