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writes:My problem is really confusing, I was goin with my BF for 18months bt we broke up jus over a year ago, the last three months we've been seeing each other a couple times a week and have been gettin on really well. I think were kind of planning on gettin back 2getha as his family already think were an item again. His family and friends really loved me and we get on really well but the thing was my friends and family dont like him and dont have a clue wats going on. i kind of understand why they dont like him as i was really hurt when he broke up with me and he got with sum1 else straight away and that made it even more difficult for me. But our original relationship was loads of ups and downs but i believe hes changed and i truely do love him and believe he loves me! He isnt aware that my family and friends dislike him but im scared, i duno how 2 break the news to them! I dont know wether to take another chance on him which i feel i really want to, but i dont want my friends to fall out with me, i no eventually my family will accept our relationship but my friends might not! Please help me! and offer some advice. I'm so confused. x
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reader, elsie +, writes (16 April 2007):
 you are living your life for YOU and not your friends or your family.you are still young and unless this guy has been a total pig violent,abusive etc.then the choice is yours.remember youll only be hiding this relationship because deep down perhaps you think its wrong as well.true friends dont abandon their mates.make sure that you dont neglect them as well though.i think your best bet is to tell your friends that you are back with this guy and be honest.tell them you were afraid of their reactions.they dont have to hang with him if they dont want to.just ask them to seperate the issues they have and still be friends with you for the time being.
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