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*elpme001
writes:hi i need help im 28 and i want to date a girl of 17 who i have fell in love with but her parents see the age gap as a problem. we are happy together but i want to reassure her that everything we are doin is within the law as her parents say its not... please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008): Age does't really matter,wat matter most is luv,just giv her parent time,then get back to them again,go throught someone that her parent respect most.dont loose ur head over this issue(im in de same situation here,dont know wat to do)so just let ur girl feel okay,wit time everything will work it..okay,.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): i dont know what to say u should probaby wait till shes like 20 that way her parents are a bit more leniant if I must say
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reader, helpme001 +, writes (2 January 2008):
helpme001 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks people... but maybe i should explain more.. i have a 2 year old son from a one night stand and did what i thought was right and moved in with the girl as at the time we lived 100 miles apart and i only saw my son once a month and it got harder and harder leavin him after every visit so i guess i was trying to be the best daddy in the world.. we arnt and never will be an item as i dont love her but i do love my son very much... we lead seperate lives so we are like house mates and we only do stuff like family outtins so my son has a half normal life. my sons mum is very protective of up as a family unit so i never wanted to run the risk of upsettin her and remained single on the thought of never seein my son.. anyways i got lonely and tried dateing but as you can guess when the conv turned to where i lived and kids most girls went to the toilet and never came back... then i net the girl from the first topic who i had a connection with and although we thought our ages where odd we tried to date and low and behold she accepted me for who i am and we fell im love.. we told her mum and dad they went mental due to the age difference so we decided to keep it low key especially as her mum and dad are like the maffia of nottingham anyways it was all good for a few moths but then we decided it was time to tell her mum and dad.. she was read the riot act and her mum and dad said they were gonna take legal action and just general threats obviously this upset both of us and we stopped but we still have deep feelings for each other and i just know that if i her parents would listen to me and get to know me then they would ignore the age difference but they dont want to know and make all her decions for her which to some extent i appreciate as i know they are lookin out for the daughter.. so im not sure what to do from here she is 18 in a few months and i suggested that we should try again then but her parents have that control over her i dont know if it till change anything.. i lsu want everyone to be happy.. so the question now is should i wait, should i just try and get on with my life even though i cant stop thinkin about her, can her mum and dad do anything legally against me, and an i wrong to be in love with someone 11 years younger than me.. oh and georgot to mention i work with this girl too
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reader, ilovetroybutcant  +, writes (2 January 2008):
as long as u dont do anything , it should be legal. just wait till shes 18, and then start dating because i know thats legal
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (1 January 2008):
 make sure u no how ur girl feels about this and then maybe when the time is right you both go to her parents and talk about any issues that they have and try and reassure them. talk to them calmly and dont lose your head over it.
i hope everything works out for you
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