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writes:I have a boyfriend. we have been going out for just over 6 months and i like him lots and i love him too. But there is this other boy i used to hate him but then we became friends and now we have gone up a year. hes in most of my classes and we get on really well! One of my friends randomly asked him who he liked the most out of the girls and he was like me and this other girl but he had told me that he fancied her ages ago. i asked him if he still like her and he said no, i was like who do you like then and hes was like "im really close to her right now and she is with someone and if i tell you mite be awkward with me." So i though it was one of my best friends but now i have been thinking it mite be me because no one im close to is taken. i think i have feelings for him too but i don't want to end it with my boyfriend. My best mate says i should just try it with the other boy and still go out with me boy friend. Also for me and the other boy to keep it a quiet!. But im not like that and i don't want to be know as a slut. This is the thing, i actually want to cheat with him to see if i like him that way. Help me !
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks :) For you Help you have really helped me ! But i have decided to Stick with my boyfriend and see the other boy are a close friend and it its been working for me so i hope it stays that way :) Thanks :)
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (8 August 2010):
 Don't cheat. its wrong and hurtful. would you like your boyfriend to do that to you to see how he feels about some other girl? Probably not.
Doesn't sound like you are all that serious about your actual boyfriend, so break up and see what happens with the guy you actually like. be fair to everyone. it is not fair to your boyfriend to have his girlfriend cheating on him and its not fair for the guy you like to be 'the other guy' and its not fair to you to live with the guilt that WILL come up...and I say 'will' like that because you stated that you're not the cheating type, so therefore your conscience will bite at you.
You could hang out with this new guy in a group of people, not a date, talk to him and see if there is a spark there and if you like him enough to break it off with your boyfriend without cheating on him. do the right thing.
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reader, MIchaela.Weeks +, writes (8 August 2010):
if youre wantin to cheat on your boyfriend then you oviously dont lik him like you say you do. just end it and go with the other guy. dont cheat. trust me i cheated on a guy and it mest up everything even if yall keep it quite itll get out to everyone eventually so just dont even go threw the trouble either break up with your boyfriend and go for the other guy or forget about the other guy and stay with the boyfriend.
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