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I want to be more than friends with him! How do I do this?

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Question - (3 November 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2006)
A female , *ellachic385 writes:

There is this guy in my art class who I have gotten feelings for. He is athletic, funny, sweet and artistic. We only really talk in that class but I see him in the halls. He is single and so am I. His last gf cheated on him. I wanted to go to Homecoming with him but when I asked if he was going with anyone he said he didn't know. Then he didn't go to the dance. I don't know how to make it more than it is.

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A female reader, Phoebe Halliwell United Kingdom +, writes (4 November 2006):

Phoebe Halliwell agony auntHey,

I agree with Jadzia 1127. Be friends first, then start hanging out together casually (eg - at a party) then like, meet up somewhere and just hang around the two of you. Really get to know him, he may just fall in love with you. And when you think you're both ready - after a while, not next week! Tell Him! If he runs a mile (which all boys do at first, don't worry) than it's his loss. This doesn't mean of course, he won't think about what you said and then come back!

Hope this helped,

Phoebe xxXxx

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A female reader, Jadzia1127 United States +, writes (4 November 2006):

Jadzia1127 agony aunt Try asking him over to help you with homework, or a project. Ask if he wants to attend a future function (dance, party, etc.) with you.

The only thing that changes friend status is time and developing the friendship beyond just friends.

So work your magic and get some time with him.

Good Luck!

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