A
male
age
30-35,
*eff91
writes: My girlfriend and I are still in high school but we both come from completely different groups. She is a bit older than me and so are her friends. I don't know all these older guys that she is friends with and I know that I can't trust them. But I continuously imagine what she could be doing when she is with these older guys at party's where I am not there. These thoughts brake my heart but she hasn't done anything to not desurve my trust... what could I do to change the way I think? I want to be able to trust her because I hate the feeling I get when I imagine what she could be doing and it's not good for are relationship. Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, jeff91 +, writes (26 November 2007):
jeff91 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot
A
female
reader, love-him +, writes (25 November 2007):
Hey hon, this is all to do with trust. Trust is the vital part of a relationship, and it takes a long time to build it up. She hasn't hurt you up until now, so keep in good contact when she goes out, and let her know how much you like her :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): Just ask her...and if she hasn't done anything not to deserve your trust then you can be more certain that she'll give you an honest answer. ...Why do you have these doubts anyway?? I hope you work everything out x
...............................
|