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writes: I'm not that old (16-21), and I'm sorta new to this whole bf/gf thing. I mean I know all the basics and things like that (I'm in a 7 month relationship at the moment), but I dont know how to act sexy! What are some things that I can do that would drive my bf crazy? Make him soo turned on that he explodes.What can I do with body language, touching, kissing, etc. that would totaly turn him on?But mostly body language. What kinds of things, movements (on and off him) etc. would be good?I don't know. Just any suggestions.pls help!! I'm curious and I want to do something that will make my bf remember forever!!(ps. no sex! or oral! anything else works)
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reader, camille +, writes (13 July 2006):
It's hard really as I don't think you can act sexy, you have to feel sexy to be sexy. Either you are or you're not. So work out what's sexy for you, to you and feel that confidence. Use that and just do what feels good for you both. Bear in mind that if you're planning on doing hot acts without oral sex or penetrative sex, you will have to also consider the boundaries. You say you want your boyfriend to explode so I don't understand? Are you both virgins? Or waiting to have sex? Or you have sex already but you want tips on doing non sex stuff without having sex? The reason I ask is, if you're planning on driving your man to the point of explosion, what happens next? He may think he's getting sex and so make sure you know what you're doing. You can dress sexy without looking tarty (unless you want to and think he'll like it). You can wear stockings. Do your hair and make up differently. Wiggle when you walk. Touch things suggestively. Lick your lips a lot. There's loads, but unless you feel comfirtable, you may look a bit daft, so better to find what makes you feel happy first and then work on your boyfriend. Sorry but without knowing more background I don't want to give any physical tips as it could be a dangerous game! (p.s 16-21? Why not just say!?! I am thinking you're 16 in which case, don't worry about things like this, just enjoy each other, it'll all come with time and experience).
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2006): This may sound horrid to you, Watch a couple of porn vids you never know what tips you could pick up on body language.
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