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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy who is 26 I am 20. He's finishing up school becoming a lawyer and I just finished school. I went to Paul Mitchell a cosmetology school. I never really cared about the aged difference he's handsome and respects me that's all that matters. As well as he has his goals set, every morning before we both go to school we go drink coffee together. And take walks on lunch. I see him less now because I no longer go to school but he finishes school in December and I'm hoping he's free on time. We are both busy but I love his ambition his effort and mindset. So I can not complain on him being so busy. He has school, a job working for the city and an internship. So I get it , I'm supportive I overall want a guy who does something with his life. I just don't know where we stand we text often but there's days when I know he's to busy to talk to me. He says things like we need to hang out one of these weekends, but it's like I'm not 21 I can't go to a bar or club to have fun I wonder if he thinks I'm to young. I don't know how to see where this is going and not make him think I won't wait. I just like him a lot we flirt but he is really respectful we just hug. And he's a total gentleman I would settle down with him I feel like he's it. I know so much about him I would pursue him how do I let him know I want him and I'm not too young I'm ready
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (5 September 2015):
 You do that by not making a big deal of it in the first place. You can't drink well trust me, there are more fun things out there than clubs and bars! If you want to build a relationship, let it be with memories of racing go-karts or surfing-not puking up a lung or two after a night of heavy drinking. Educate yourself as much as you can on world affairs and politics too-men his age like women who know something of the world. I'm not saying not to be yourself but be more educated about the things he obviously deals with. More importantly, don't force things! Let things develop at a decent speed-and that includes sex ;) your age won't be a big deal to him at all if you show a good level of poise and maturity. And look at it this way, if you two do end up together, you'll forever be the hot, younger wife! Best of luck
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