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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2006): If you think he could get violent or try to force his way in, it would be a good idea to speak to the police before you do it. I don't know what country you're from but in England, they can "mark" your address so that if any emergency calls come from it, they will respond immediately and they will also be briefed on the situation as they arrive.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (1 August 2006):
 Yes, all this advice is good. So if you want him out, and you have told him, yet STILL he does not get the message, just pack his bags when he is out, take them somewhere where he can collect them, and then text him telling him where he can find them. Change all your contact numbers if needs be. Then - IMMEDIATELY - have the locks changed. As long as you have someone to stay with you until the dust settles, he does not have a leg to stand on. You can still involve the police, even take out an injunction if necessary, to keep him out of your life. Someone has to make the first move, and you have told him, so it should come as no surprise..but DO take on board all of the answers here, it is all sound advice, he could have a nasty side when backed into a corner, and you need to have your safety uppermost in mind when you do this. Good luck - and TAKE CARE! Please update me if you wish to discuss anything at all, I am always glad to help.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 I have no idea? Ask him to go?
C'mon, more info please.....
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reader, tropicaldazed +, writes (27 July 2006):
tropicaldazed is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have asked him many times in the past to leave when big fights accur. He pleads to change and he actually does for the better. I'm just tired of our relationship. He doesn't pull his own weight around the house as far as bills go and it's always one thing or another. He won't leave! I don't know how to get him out.
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reader, snowbird +, writes (27 July 2006):
Not enough info to go on - can you please give a bit more detail so we can help you; such as:
1) Have you asked him to leave yet; and is he being stubborn?
2) Is he violent? - you may need assistance from the police in this case
3) Can you have someone else there when you ask him to go - in case things get too heated?
Any other info would be appreciated, thanx..
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