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I told my ex I missed him and he said "That's a real turn off!"

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Question - (9 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2009)
A female age 36-40, *umelo writes:

he says he loves me,he wants to be with me, thats my ex, but i really dont get him.

now i phone him as usual, i told him that missed, all he could say was oh,thats really a turn off, i love him but he is the one who initiated this stupid lets get back together thing,im just trying to meet him halfway thats what this is all about..

i really dont get him.

i feel like i should this before it started anyway,

he is full of stories and his life is such a mess, of which i told him to sort himself out.

is he playing some game or what?

should i stop phoning at all or do i talk to him about this, cause he is really cold eew

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (9 January 2009):

Honeypie agony auntI would stop phoning him. Let him make the next move. Most guys don't like a "clingy" girl ( I'm not calling you clingy, but he might perceive the "I miss you" as a "clingy" thing to say, know what I mean?).

I don't think he's playing games, I just think he really really sucks at communicating his thoughts and feelings.

Let him take the time to "sort" himself out, maybe you are still available maybe you still want to be with him, but if he's a mess now and full of "stories".. I'd let him go.

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A female reader, SexyFace United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2009):

SexyFace agony auntLove this sounds like a game to me he seems to be messing about dont allow him to do this as you will only get more hurt trust me know i mean like why iks playing these games. you need to be strong and tell dont play games with me you want me or you dont dont allow yourself to be part of a game

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