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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me at just before new year saying he wanted to be by himself. He stayed away for a few days then arrived back into my house, hugging me and kissing me etc etc... He seemed to grip me hard when he hugged me as if not to let go. He stays when I'm on my own and holds me all night. We booked a weekend away.. also wants me to go travelling with him in the summer.. making excuses to call in to see me... but, last week he went out and arranged to meet this girl.. now he's all changed says he doesn't want to string me along.. doesn't want to go way for the weekend, but he's not interested in a relationship with this girl or anyone else.. he still wants to know everything I'm up to.. who you meeting, where you going etc?? How did he change in so little time!! I thought he was slowly coming back to me but then in the space of a day he's gone all funny.. still says he wants me in his life etc.. but I'm confused.. to break off.. then come back as if nothing has happened.. and now this.. what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): What do we think, i think this is a bloke who doesnt know what he wants. Personally, i would tell him to buggar off or he will do your head in with his minds games.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): Don't know, he sounds as if he is not ready for a committed relationship and there is a girl or two he thinks he may be missing out on.
I would have a talk with him about what he wants and how he views fidelity and make your decision that way....tell him what you envision for your future without asking him to make a commitment, then start acting all funny yourself, give him his space and lots of it, don't be there when he drops in or calls and asks to see you on short notice, those are the benefits given to a boyfriend who is yours alone, make him work to have access to you, don't threaten or make him jealous with another man, it will backfire on you, just be truly too busy with your own life, and see if he doesn't ask you for that commitment...if he doesn't then maybe you might want to kick him to the curb, it is up to you.
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reader, wazwazy  +, writes (17 February 2008):
 i think u should forget about him guys say that so they can get another girl
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