A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Please help.I fell in love with a man 5 years a go; and it was love at first sight for me. he never felt the same way and we never spoke again. I never stopped thinking about him and I know i know this sounds cheesy but i really love him.Even though he didnt like me i still thought about him every day. Recently we bumped in to each other and we ignored each other. and today i found out he is married and he has been married for 12 years. Am upset that I have only just found out. Perhaps had i known before I may have controlled my feelings. Feel like I have wasted my 5 years. I know you must be thinking find someone else. But since I fell for him i dated two other guys and they both treated me badly..My self esteem is really low and i dont trust men.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): Your obsession with him probably has more to do with you than with him; he is a fantasy. Let go and figure out why you are not able to focus your energy on an available man, and more importantly, one who is into you.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (3 February 2009):
 This is so hard to answer as you know what is coming. You really must try and move on. Now you know he is married it may make it easier.
I'm sorry I couldn't be more help but I felt someone had to answer you.
Good luck
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