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writes: Hey everyone!lately i've been quite upset and confused, just about everything... me and my boyfriend havent been the best and my parents are going through divorce, it seems like everyday my relationship is becoming more and more like my parentsand i get so upset and frustrated because before all of my parents incidents my relationship with my 1 year and a half boyfriend was so much better !i dunno what to do, everytime he yells at me or we have a fight i always turn to breaking up because i dont know how to cope with both our relationship and my parents at the same time... he knows this i've told him countless timesbut i guess old habbits die hard, do you think i should stay with him? go on a break? or break up?i know i still love him alot, just because of all the circumstances and situations i've been put in recently have made me grow thin and tired of everything... i'm so effortlesswe spend the weekend together, PERFECT then wen i'm about to leave we have a fight? why is that? i just wished things would go back to normal, do you think because i've been upset about my parents my better judgement has been decreased? and im more vulnerable to fights etcplease help me, wat should i say to him to make him really understand and try to change?please write bak! wb.x
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reader, metalinvasion92  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 first of all trust me when i saw do not get wrapped up in your parents problmes......yes it involves you 2 but it only makes things harder in times like a divorce. and because of what is happening to your parents ... you are going to be very moody at times and vulnerable. you should really sit this guy down of yours and tell him exactly what is going on and why you are having such a hard time with it. i do not recommend you break with him unless you really feel as though it is best for YOU. so good luck with your situation and remeber only if you feel as though you must break up with this guy. Oh and also remeber that every time you make up after a fight your relationship gets stronger....good luck
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