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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi...iam have a problem that i think most woman have...my husband stopped loving me...doesnt want to sleep with me..he avoid it...started talking to his ex...he is distant emtionally...when i ask him if he is still loves me...he said sure...i dont believe him...i have one son from him...i dont want the my baby to be raised alone and i cant have another kid from him and i know in the future we may not continue u together...iam a mess...i dont know how to leave him....help meee
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reader, Sam.Lowings-Henderson  +, writes (7 October 2008):
ok you obviously sound like an socially intelligent woman and who is caring and sensetive. i can see what you mean and yeah sometimes i to feel like that. but at the end of the day if he decides that he does not love you anymore, then that is entirely his problem. NOT YOURS! if you dont feel loved then just leave him. once you've done that and he chases after you and says that he loves you, then that will be a bit of a wake up call for him. if he does not seem to care that you have gone, then that is etirely his loss and you should not feel sad, because the loss is on his side. yes you will feel heart broken in the short term, but in the long term you will be leading a life which you will prefer and most importantly one that you will enjoy. try it and see what his reaction is.
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