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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has a child with another woman while i was with him but it actually happened when we had a problem. He was so special during that time and after he had a kid. Recently he started acting up. I think he is having an affair with a girl but he claims to be only friends with her. Now i have met a man who wants so marry me. What will i do when i sometimes think about my ex?
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reader, lil_dreamer  +, writes (29 January 2009):
i dont think you should ever be with a man (especially have a fiance) when another guy is on your mind. just think about why u and ur ex are not together. he does have a baby with another girl therefore that girl will always be involved in your life. looks like there are just to many things in the way of you two and you both should just go and live seperate lives and be happy with new people. but you should really stop and get ur ex off ur mind if you love someone else and that someone wants to marry you. concentrate on him if you really love him and if he is a good guy. but dont marry him until ur sure ur ex is out of the picture and out of your head because that would be unfair to ur husband.
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