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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello:)Right, I think my boyfriend has a thing for my best mate!This might be a bit long winded, but a bit of background information about me.I was cheated on by my first love, and one other boyfriend.. and it has resulted in me being paranoid. Now, I am not obsessed or bitchy, believe it or not I AM laid back, however I tend to pick up on everything in my relationship! I always have done, I never fully believe the worst, I just pick up on things!Not just with me though, I do it with my friends, family etc.. maybe it's paranoia!Anyway, me and my boyfriend have been together a few months, however known each other for years, and we've been together before. We are in the same friendship group, which is 4 girls, me and my three best friends, and all the lads, we are all close, but he is more close to his lad mates and I am with my girl mates.Now, all our friends went away a few weekends ago, and it was all mixed up who was going with who and how we were all getting there,I noticed my boyfriend kept asking about one of my best mates. 'How's Kate getting here?' 'Is Kate coming?'then when I said she is, a few hours later he actually went 'Ahhhh kate can't come can she :(' and I said 'Yes.. I've already said she's coming'then the next day for a day trip 'how's kate getting here?'then.. me being paranoid me..I remembered when we weren't together, we all went away for a weekend and on the way back he said 'Kate looked really nice this weekend.. really different and pretty'Now all this has been bombarding my little brain over the past few days :(And I've started asking the questions does he like her? she is one of those girls who talks to all the guys in the group a lot, and always does herself up etc.SO!! what am I to do!!Do I question him? Although that may make me look silly.. and paranoid... and self conscious that I'm questioning it?What should I do!!Helppppp!!!!!:D xxxx
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (15 June 2012):
 HI
You are right to be concerned. Your boyfriend is showing no concideration to your feelings, if he is so interested in how your friend is doing, and what shes doing, and who,what,when,why....tell him straight out! what is your fixation with my best friend? if your that concerned about her then go ask her, get a life and leave mine. Dont let this boy treat you like a ( ill stay with her untill i find something better girl) be strong and let him know you WONT be treated like a fool.
Mandy x
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