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writes:Where to start... well I think I might be in love with my best friend. lol how terrible isn't being so close to her mooning over her from so close. I feel almost shameful because where so close. I don't want to ruin our friendship. I've always had a thing for her and normally it just fluctuates. But as of yesterday I just felt it kick into overdrive perhaps it had something to do with her just being beautiful combined with like a decade of friendship plus all her other attractive qualities I mean she would be like gold to almost anyone.She cleans, cooks, takes care of herself, plays video games sometimes and likes big tvs. She basically is a best friend plus a attractive female. How am I supposed to fight this it feels utterly overwhelming im hoping after expressing my feelings to random strangers they(you readers) will help me get over it. I was proud, almost to having a platonic friendship with her. Shes dated some of my close friends over the years. we've had a one night stand i think i blew it though. we had sex on a gross couch lol and i wanted to take a shower (we were drunk) and she wanted to cuddle. Another time we made out at a friends house and I told her I was going to marry her while I had a gf. I dont even remember her response. we were drinking there too. haha the problems are the complications. I know her well better then she knows herself I think. I see her patterns in dating she has like flavors of the month. guys she utterly gets infatuated with then they get old and she finds problems and moves on to the next guy..... :/ oh and we have ALOT of mutual close friends. I know her well enough that she would still be my friend afterwords. It might even be not to big of a deal to her since this falls into almost a normal category for her lol. The problem is our friendship is important to me and I wouldn't really want to damage. it. I think I can get over it after writing here. were both 25.I'd like to point out once that she came over wasted...to my apartment with my ex gf(she used to live with us too) and we were watching movies with another friend while my ex gf was sleeping in our bedroom. She would cuddle with me(normal) then she started scratching and digging her nails into me crazy she left me some nasty scratches. wtf was that about? She was laughing and having fun with it. It wasn't so fun on my end.What should I do?
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (1 April 2009):
 tehn try it out man...tell her how you really feel and ask her out....since you guys are so close it probly wont effect your freindship afterwards if it doesnt work out.....give it a shot
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