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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:as the title says i think i have a crush on a girl i haven seen or spoken to for atleast 8years it was back when we started secondry school i was in her form (we were about ten or eleven years old) and would you belive she fancied me and asked me out me being shy and didnt realy know her i said no *face palm* noow i wish i had said yes. i moved forms for other reasons and we never realy spoke again diff classes and that, never said hi when we met in hall ways and dinner hall it had nothing to do that i turned her down it was just the way it was ike so many other people i knew. but recenty i joined facebook and added loads of friends from school and she was one of em she accepted my request and ever since i cant stop looking at her pictures she so attractive, only thing is shes out of our city at uni i dont realy know what to do i seriously cant stop looking at her pics and feal i should say somthink to her but what? i know a relationship is sensibly out of the qyestion cos she is at uni. but what could i send her to start talking again? but isnt it a bit random sending her a message after akll we ahvent spoken in 8 years she prob doesnt realy remeber me that much let alon like me. but if did send her a message then what? keep sending her one everyday? but then shel think im pestering her? send her A message once.... and thats it for ever i supose ? or should i just let it be say nothing aand try forget about her (easier said than done) what can i do ???????????????? thanks for reading and if you answer thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2011): Well you don't have anything to lose in messaging her. You're both young and single. I wouldn't go in there and start off by saying how much you like her and can't stop thinking about her though, you'll scare her off. I'd start by saying just a casual hi i'm so and so, I was in your form at school, how you doing? and then go from there... Good luck!
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