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writes: I've been in a relationship for 6 years. I'm very suspicious of my boyfriends behavior. I see him around five times a week, but it isn't consistent. For example I'll see him on Sunday all day. But on Monday I won't hear from him at all. And it will continue like this all week. I know he has a baby momma and she works at night. So sometimes he will leave my house at 5:30 in the morning pretending he has to get ready for work. Or he'll stop by in the morning around seven and leave for work. I believe he's playing both of us. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dilemma +, writes (10 December 2006):
Dilemma is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo the repondent from dec. 8th
in response to your answer, i found out about the baby mama because she and i had a confrontation. at the time i didn't know about her and she didn't know about me. this was not a situation where i knew about her from the beginning. i was with him for a year before i even found out. he came running back to me and begged for forgiveness for not telling me he had a kid. but he claimed they were not together. i didn't know what to believe because she began doing silly things, like calling my phone and playing. so i sort of felt that she was just mad because i was now in the picture. but i believe now that he has never really made it clear to her about us and is playing us both. i say this because his whereabouts are sometimes unclear. i also believe that she has the attitude that she was with him first and she will put up with his behavior. what ever the circumstance. so that is why he can be so slick with his motives. i have not caught him doing anything but i feel something is not right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2006): It's the way feel that matters because you're the one in the relationship and so that's up to you to decide.
If you think he's playing you around then leave him because you're obviously not happy in this relationship.
Like I've said in other answers; at least that way you're free to find another boyfriend who's more deserving of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): Well of course he is playing you if he is still living with the baby's mama and only seeing you in the mornings and when shes not home. I think you need to sit down and figure out what is really right for you. a man that has another girlfriend and a baby. There are so many people out there that don't have family's. decent men. I came from a divorced family and it tore me up inside all the time. think about the children and the his girlfriend, I'm sure she don't know about you and thinks everything is allright in the relationship. Also have you been in this relationship for six years or do you have a boyfriend also.
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