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writes: i am so confused and guilty ryt now. i have had feelings for a close friend of mine for years and we've always had feelings for each other, but we've never been out. i've always been his rock when hes going out with a girl and he's mine when im goin out with someone. the problem is that since the summer he started going out with a girl-friend of mine, but within the first month me and him ended up kissing and till november we were doing things with each other til we got caught by our friends. i've lost my girl-friend now, but she's taken back her boyfriend and everythings settled. there was a month where me and the lad didnt do anything, but since last month its started up again and we've actually slept together now. i can't face to see him and his girlfriend together while we're in school. he said that he's sorry that he's hurting me but he's really torn. he hasn't slept with his girlfriend yet, and i don't know what i'm going to do if they do. i feel so lost and angry that i let this happen, but i liked him so much that i didn't want to stop myself! any help would be appreciated so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni jus wana say tank u so much 4 helpin me and its reli givn me a confidence boost! i feel so much betr now and i think i no wat i shud do now tanx u im gna talk to him and see if there cud b a future wif us X :) X
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reader, sexseahot +, writes (13 March 2006):
You guys should definitely try being together. It seems that you guys would be a great couple. If you have been there for eachother for so long and are interfering in eachother's relationships, maybe you guys should just try it out for a little bit and see what happens. I think you guys could work out pretty well if you want it to. It seems you two love eachother very much, but don't want to let eachother know.
Good Luck!
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reader, lois star +, writes (12 March 2006):
you have allways been there for each other i think you love each other .so stop hurting other people and get on with your lives it is good to know.that this guy is agood listner. so try and go out as a couple i think you are ment to be lois star
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reader, x_pixie_x +, writes (12 March 2006):
Have a little chat with him privately. Ask him what he thinks should happen and see where it goes from there. Just think positive it will get you much further in life. Good luck, and all the best in the future!
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