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writes:I'm a relationship and l get out of words so l need help on what l can talk about when l'm with her to keep our relationship live. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): Don't ask questions that can get a 1 word answer. Ask things that she will have to give a proper answer, that way you can develop and keep a conversation going for longer.
What did you do at the weekend?
What did you do today?
Make random statements that will get a reaction, it really doesn't matter what it is, just say it and see what she says.
I'm like your girlfriend in that I only ever give one word answers unless I'm writing them on something like I am now. But my friends have got the hang of the way I am and have started asking questions I have to give a proper answer for, they also do the random comment thing. Only yesterday my friend said 'the moon is made of cheese' and it started an instant conversation between us that lasted at least twenty minutes and we weren't even talking about cheese or the moon. It sounds stupid but my friends tried it with me and it worked perfectly. Give it a go, it might work for you too.
Good luck and don't give up trying.
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reader, Carmz  +, writes (2 May 2011):
I want my relationship to live too. My boyfriend and I had been going out for over a year now and I'm the type of girl that wants to talk to him every time. I feel that it's not necessary to always have something to talk about.
We sometimes have to reserve conversations especially the important ones. Don't think about running out of things to say. Because the more paranoid you are, the more unlikely topics would come out.
Be yourself. Start with small talk :)
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