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writes:Dear Cupids,I am presently seeing a guy . Its been 3 weeks now. We have a great time , being around each other. We communicate on a broad spectrum of topics. Recently, he has been going through some rough patches and I have been helping him to solve them. Since then he has told me twice that I remind him of his mother. He also talks well of her ... alot I am wondering: Is that good or bad and what does it mean?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Been there Now over it  +, writes (2 November 2015):
Sounds good to me. What's not to like about this? If he didn't like his mother, it would be another story.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 November 2015):
 As long as he thinks of you in other ways too, such as sexy, charming and not just motherly then it's good. The role of a girlfriend is a combination of lover, nurturer, supporter and best friend. He should be able to show you his sunshine disposition and not just use you as an emotional clutch. Time will tell if your relationship has more dimensions than just helping him solve problems in life.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (1 November 2015):
As you say he has being going through some rough patches and he was lucky to have your helping hand.Its difficult to know exacly what he means re- remark about his mother.[1]He admires his mum and talks a lot about her-that is positive[2]He may admire because you because you remind him of his mothers good points.However i think the question you are asking-in what light does he see you.On this level give it time and see what happens .Best luck.NORA B.
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