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*shleyCole
writes:I think I'm in love. but im not sure. i hate to admit it but i think i have this strong feelings for someone i rejected. I told him to leave me alone. he did. Life went on as normal as it was.3 weeks had past and I had been dating with other guys but somewhere deep inside of me, i felt i have to see him again. I find myself thinking of him. To think I can't commit to anyone, I am not the type of girl who will commit to one man. I find myself wondering what his up to. I deleted his number, were no longer fb friends. I don't have the nerve to email him. but what is happening to me? Why am i thinking of him? what should I do? do you think he have forgotten about me? does he have another girl now? could he be dating someone else? What do guys think about girls who rejected them?I can't take back what I said to him right? I am confused. i think I am in Love with him. OMG. This can't be. Guys pls. help me what to do?
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reader, Haych  +, writes (15 July 2013):
well maybe having him out of our life made you realize that you do in fact need him there talk things through with him you never know maybe he still does care about you but if he has moved on then maybe you should try to as well but if his feeling were ever true about you i doubt withing three weeks that they would just disappear but i'm thinking you might have to do a lot to make it up to him GOOD LUCK x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2013): Hi there!
yeah i think you must have fallen for him too.
oh! bad move you rejected him.
what to do?
I think it wouldn't hurt to try wiseowie's advised.
Try to email him and tell him how you feel.
I asked my male work mates about how guys felt after being rejected.
Male Work mate No. 1: It depends if they really like the girl too much, it hurts their ego. wont forget about it. will have high regards of the girl because she's not easy.
Male work mate No. 2: He will just forget about you and find someone who will appreciate him.
Male work mate No. 3: He will never contact the girl who rejected him ever again. If she did contact him, he will take revenge and make it difficult for her.
So, you see it depends on the guy.
If I were you just try to accept the FACT, your in love but maybe you can't be with someone you love.
If it hurts. then it hurts.
Your such a grown up, you should know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2013): Just e-mail him and say you're sorry you've lost his number. You feel you may have acted a little hastily.
Ask him what he's up to, and if he would be willing to give it another try? Just tell him you didn't really know where your head was at the first time; but if he doesn't respond, you'll understand. Send and wait. Don't try again.
No apologies or pleading. Keep the message short and to the point.
Now it's up to him to pursue you. It may not be too late.
Don't beat yourself up. It's better to have a delayed reaction; than to act impulsively, or chase out of desperation. We guys want what we can't have, more.
Rejection boomeranged!
Good luck!!!
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