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writes: It was going fine and everything, we would sit together hugging and kissing away most of our lunch times and then it must have been wednesday she just went a bit wierd, she wasnt at school and mentioned something about things happening and things being confusing...then the next day at school she says "i dont want to lie to you... i dont want it to be awkward between us, how bout we stay friends"it seemed fine, right until then, it was so uncalled for...its not as if things change in the course of a day...I reckon she digs another guy..what do you think? im really finding it hard to get over this one... maybe just tell me whats going on might put my mind at rest..on a side note, yes we did do things together, as i said it was fine until one day where she said she wasnt going to be at school cos she was sick (a cold that i gave her) so i apologized and she responded like "nah its nothing to do with that, there are other things... sorry i have to go" she didnt say i love you or anything she usually does.I havnt done anything awkward, we were going out for 5 months and the last week felt like the same as it had in the past...I asked her if it was me or anything i had done and she said no...As i said.. Things dont change course in the matte of a day...any idea what could be happening, should i try and forget about her?Ive spent sleepless nights since trying to cry myself to sleep at the thought of never being able to hold her again, and to think of her with someone else...Im sorry that this was long and drawn out, but i love her and i would like to have some idea of what is going one..thanks
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (19 February 2011):
I'm sorry you feel this way. But there is only one solution here. You have to talk to her and demand the truth about this issue. You have to ask her is she is seeing someone else. You deserve to know the truth.
Of course, be prepared for the worst. And if this is what you think, it will hurt a lot. In the end I think that truth is always better. But truth hurts.
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