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writes:Hi im 23 and have been going through a very weird problem. Well me and this girl had been friends since we were 3 and when we were 15 we became boyfriend and girlfriend and loved each other very much. My mum never liked it and about a year n a half later decided to move and even though i was 16 and could live on my own it all happended so quickly and hadn't got anywhere to permanently stay. I have never stopped thinking about her and recently met up with one of our best friends and she told me that like me she still wanted to be with me. I have now moved back to my home town and really want to make a go of this. I spoke to her brother who gave me her number beforemi spoke to our friend but i was too shy to call her. Now yesterday i was out shopping and i'm almost sure that i saw her and she was looking at me too but didn't say anything and went off because there was no proof that it definately was her. I also found out that she works at the school right outside our estate. I really don't know how to contact her again i'm pretty confident that she will be ok with me coming back because of what i've been told and they have all said she hasn't had another boyfriend since me and i haven't had another girlfriend either. I would rather see her face to face than talk over the phone so I don't know whether to text her and tell her who I am and that I'd like to see her but she might think its just a joke or should I "accidently" be working outside the school when she comes out or what? and what do i say to her? please help
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reader, DV1  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 If you remember where she lives, drop by and say: "hi". That's the best start. Don't go into it with high expectations. Tell her that you were back in town, and that you thought to say hi to her. She'll most likely appreciate this gesture. Hang out a few times, then take it from there. Slowly bring the discussion to how you're feeling. Take a chance, and it may or not work out. Either way, you'll have closure on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): hi i wrote this question i ment walking outside the school not working lol
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