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writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 4 months.im really in love with my boyfriend and im doing all i can to please him even stuff i cant im trying my best, he can see im tryin hard but its not good enough for him, a day after valentine we had an argument and he told me how is not in love with me anymore but he loves me, i really love him and want to keep him. i dnt know if he still love me or not Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): Now look here: why are YOU doing everything to keep him happy and please him, when he is not doing the same for you?
You obviously are more "invested" in the relationship than he is. His telling you he loves you but is not "in love" with you, indicates that. (Besides which, this "I love you but am not in love with you" stuff is a bunch of crap, in my book).
I wouldn't worry about "loving him and wanting to keep him" if I were you. For one, you can't keep him or make him love you if his heart's not in it; and for another, you can do much better......have some dignity and cut your losses!
Yes, I know its upsetting, but you do deserve better!
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