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writes:okay well basically i met this guy online and we started talking and getting to know eachother, and he is absolutly AMAZING theres only a year age gap, we like all the same things, have the same views on things, and for the last couple of months ive got to know him ive really started to like him.he is really everything i look for in a guy, the features, the personality, ... he's just like no other guy ive met..now the problem is he lives about 1 and half to 2 hrs away from me , by train (we goodled it)and thats a big problem for him, because he mentioned from the start when we first got talking that he would hate having a girlfriend that lived far from him, we both cannot drive, and dont earn alot of money.. but my problem is ive really REALLY started liking him :( and i can never get him out my head, its really wierd because ive never felt like this with any of my previous boyfriends and yet i use to see them on a daily basis.. the truth is i really doubt that anything will ever come from it :( so i need to know how to get over him, i dont want to but i need to cus its just upsetting me that i cant find a guy half as decent as i think he is, ive tried my hardest to avoid talking to him online or txting him but its just so hard, plz help sum1im sorry i know its long but thank you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): i to am in a LDR and he lives about 3 hours away can only see him in the school hols cause we both have a child i have been in it for over a year now and will say its not easy but if you stay fully committed then it can work we text every day talk on the net every night and keep each other going so dont give up on him yet and accept its over before it starts to what you say about knowing him and clicking with him give it a chance cause you might never find another like him i know i would never find another like my man he his my soul mate we think the same finish each other sentences off its like i have met my self i believe its me in a mans body so if you have this feeling hes the one dont let him go cause of distance i know when we met we promised each other we would not let distance get in our way just be honest loyal and committed if you can be this things will be fine but i do feel to let things really progress is one has to move to be nearer that i have found out with my feeings off the loss when i am not with him i myself have decided to do that i am hoping to move nearer to him soon cause i feel its time to get things really going and so does he...but dont give up on your LDR man he could be the one..good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): 2 hours isn't THAT long when you think about it. My boyfriend happens to live about 17 hours away by plane! I honestly never thought I'd be in this sort of situation, but I really do love him. Maybe the guy you like will end up with the same sort of feeling.
It may seem hard, but you can CERTAINLY work it out! Best of luck to you :)
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