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writes:So it started off when I used to go to college with this guy. We were in a class one semester, and I could tell that he had a MAJOR crush on me because he was always staring at me and finding the most idiotic, stupid excuses to speak to me. I could tell that he really liked me just by the way that he looked at me. I liked him too, so when the semester ended I was sad because we never exchanged information and I thought I wouldn't see him again.Well, it turns out the next semester we ended up in another class together. And it was another semester of the same thing, but we didn't sit close to each other. It almost seemed like he was scared, but it was so incredibly obvious that he had a thing for me. That semester ended and it was the same thing, we never gave exchanged contact information. So then about a week and a half ago, nearly a year and a half after all of this, I run into him at my favorite nightclub (which, what do you know, it turns out that he works there now). My friend said that it looked like he still had a thing for me because of the way he was looking at me, it was like a "special" way I guess you can say that she said. We finally exchanged information. He never said that he'd call or anything like that, it was just kind of like well I'll give you my number and you give me yours kind of thing. Do you guys think he'll call? And if he doesn't, and I KNOW that he is into me, why wouldn't he?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): Don't sit and wonder, just call him and see what kind of vibes you get. That would be a big clue. But it seems like if he was so into you, why didn't he ever try harder? Of course he might just be really shy, its really hard to say. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): You might as well ask this question to a lucky eight ball, remember those, you have a 50 50 chance he'll call.
It doesn't sound to me like he is that into you, maybe is already in a relationship or doesn't want to date girls, maybe he is gay, but if a guy was that into you he would have had no trouble ASKING you on a date.
If you just want an answer to the question, why don't you call him first? Don't ask him out, just chat and mention that you are going to be somewhere when and then see if he shows up. I'd be careful though, he may just be into some sexual conquest.....so take it slow.
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reader, PsychicDove  +, writes (19 October 2008):
 That was sweet indeed. He will prove to be a good and entertaining companion if you would like to proceed for fun but if you wish to get seriously involved, such as long term relationship then he cud prove to be someone who is unable to give you security and someone who resorts to emotional blackmail, like a childish and immature attitude in love. This relationship could lead to unwelcome entanglements honey yet might be exciting. Although am not sure if he will call or not. Take care okay? ;)
Good Luck and Best Wishes
~ PsychicDove
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