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writes:I've only been loved by one person...... And I want to be loved but, I know I need to wait and let it find me...... But I want to know how do I make myself want to wait?!?!?! I've been trying to figure it out for a while and I was wondering if any of you could help me.... I really want someone there just to be there and hold me and then love me for who I am..... Please try to help..........Thank you... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): I know what this is like completely, the only thing i can suggest is finding smething long term you want equally. I really want a good career and at the moment in my second year of uni trying to get there. Its surprising how fast the time is going and the amount of people Im meeting through it. I split up with someone when I was nearly 19 and longed for the right person to come along but all of a sudden Im just coming up to 21 in a few months and its all because Ive stayed positive about something i can change! Your still young so find something else ur passionate about dont let the chance to achieve it pass u by!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (8 January 2008):
I know how you must be feeling.Most of us have grown up thinking like that.If you really want what you are saying,i'd advise you to adopt a few things.Don't jump into any relationship a guy offers you.I can testify that when you are single you think more clearly and make better decisions.Another one is to take things slowly.The more hurried a guy seems the more you should suspect he won't love you the way you want.Secondly is to make alot of male friends.Ever heard of "great friends make great lovers"? You may be surprised that the person you are looking for is among your friends or from your childhood.I don't know how religous you are but i'd also advise you to pray about it.
Good luck and take care.
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