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writes: I think my girlfriend wants to split up, im not sure though so i need some advice from you very helpful people...... Basically we go back to my mates place and have a cup of tea then we leave and my g/f gets in the car and i notice shes gone all quiet again so i ask her is she ok and she replies "so you wanna know me now then!" so i try to explain that i hadnt seen my mate and his g/f for two weeks but thats not good enough reason for her...... anyways i am going out with my mate and his g/f next weekend camping at a show and i have been inviting my g/f but she says she dont wanna go now but a few weeks ago she was saying she would and that shes gonna stay at home and have some mates round and have some drinks but she recons she dont like drinking, so its gets me to thinking....... so i tell her i really want her to come and she replies "that im not important to her anymore" Then shes says later "are you scared that a boy will pay more attention to me than you do?"I do try my hardest to pay attention to my g/f i she her all the time and i shit my mates out quite abit for her and still she says that i dont pay her enough attention?....... Another thing is that we havent been having sex alot latley not because of her its because of me and i think this maybe something to do with it but i really cant get my head around whats wrong, we dont really talk about things that much before its a full blown argument, Please Help. Thanks for reading.
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reader, Ifonlyangel +, writes (6 June 2006):
Ifonlyangel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks very much for the replies, i will try and sit down with her and have a heart to heart. Fingers crossed! thanks again,
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reader, Smiler +, writes (6 June 2006):
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Well sweetie women can be very tempremental creatures, i don't doubt your word that you give her alot of attention you sound like your a sweet guy who actually thinks about your g/f and her feelings especially blowing your mates off for her but i think your g/f is just going though an indecisive phase its not you personally its something thats happening with her, don't beat yourself up about this... i would sit down with your g/f and have a good heart to heart with her, explain that your bending over backwards trying to give her the care and attention she needs but nothin you do seems to be good enough tell her that its really getting you down cause it certainly appears that way to me, try and approach the sex thing saying you feel that she doesn't want you any more, as you are always the one who initiates sex betweeen you two and how that makes you feel, maybe your g/f has a few things on her mind that you two could talk about.. my advise sweetie is have a good heart to heart don't leave anything out ok... be completely honest here she will respect your honesty and if she loves you as you love her she will co-operate and you can work this thing out as a couple
I hope my advise helped you a little, Good luck sweetie, if you ever wanna talk or just more advise feel free to email me i'm always here for you ok would love to hear from you again
You Take Care Sweetie X
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