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51-59,
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writes:From my previous question. I am seeing a married man on and off. Most of the time I broke up wiith him. But since we work in the same place I can't seem to get over him. I want to break fee from him so badly pls hlep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): i am in the same situation just ignore him and keep your head high u wll rise above the occasion also ignore him and when u get to the point in showing your teeth again to him then just give it a hi and goodbye kill him with class and not trash also u will feel good about yourself again nothing ends well with dating a married man next time run like hell
goood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): Tell yourself that he is a philanderer, a cheat, he is only boosting his own ego NOT YOURS!! He is also getting sex on tap when he wants it.
You are feeling bad, so why put yourself up for that??
Men are very clever at playing women to get what they want, they will tell you anything you want to hear so that you think you are special to them.
Think of all the negative things that you feel abou him,
NOT AOUT THE SEX AND 'LOVE FEELINGS' which keep you pining for him.
He does not want you enough to leave his wife for you, you are being used!!!
You are only good enough to have sex with in secret!!!
If you really have to stay at your job, 'which you will feel is so' because you have something pulling at you in the work place ,you need to back off big time, stop all flirting, intimate conversation, and any physical contact, even 'accidental' touches which will make you crave him more.
Tell him you have had enough! Tell yourself you have had enough!
After that do not loook in to his eyes, and when speaking to him, 'if you have to only', be nothing but polite and professional.
Of course it would be better if you could change jobs. You will not do that of course, because you are actually putting yourself forward and hanging on in case he may tell you he wants you and only you.
HE WILL NOT, IF HE DOES, HE DOES NOT MEAN IT, he would have said it by now or done something about it!!
Do not sit there thinking that he has reasons why he can not say or do it.
If he wanted you and only you, HE WOULD DO IT!!
You are being used, whether he tells you he loves you or not!!
Think of yourself, how you are feeling and make a concious decision to say, and mean it, I HAVE HAD ENOUGH!! I am worth more than this.
Good luck, and makae sure you do it.
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