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writes:Before anything, I'd like to clarify my real age which is 13, not 18+I currently have a crush on this guy. Let's call him Tom. I used to love this guy, let's call him Sam.Well basically, Sam was perfect, he was hot, cute, nice and sweet. I would say, the perfect boyfriend - except that he was already attached so I gave him up. I really loved him though.(he's 1 year my senior)So Tom is 3 years my senior and he looks foreign. I've never actually talked to him but through my other 3 year senior friends, I found out his name and class. When I asked them if Tom was a nice person, their exact reply was "Not really".And so, when I was thinking if Tom is really worth it, Sam keeps popping into my head. I keep thinking that no guy that age could even be half as nice and sweet as he is since most people that age are rather immature. I don't really know the defination of "Not really that nice" because I've only known 2 groups of peoples, "Nice" and "Completely not nice" so I'm still wondering 'what's in between?'I know my question isn't very clear but if someone could provide me with some form of an action plan, I'd really appreciate it, Thanks for reading this question.
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reader, Mrs. Mom  +, writes (16 March 2009):
 You're welcome sweetie. You're smart for asking. Good luck finding someone fun to hang out with! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to the 2 wonderful readers who have read and answered my question. I agree with both of you and appreciate the time taken.
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (13 March 2009):
"Not really nice" means "not nice." That is a negative recommendation. Even if guys your age are immature, this guy is too old for you.
Try going out with groups of friends and getting to know guys that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): action plan. Take no action! Tom is 16 your 13! Your a little girl still. Maybe you did have a crush on this sam but you didnt love him because you didnt know him and your 13. finish school then worry about guys
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