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26-29,
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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month now but we haven't seen each other since early this summer in July. It is now September and school has started. We don't go to the same school and I miss him. I'm worried that he is with other girls at his new school. Am I too jealous? Should I worry or let it go and not mention it to him??
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2014): Your still young. Let it go.
Go on with your life. Its not good for you to worry too much about someone so far. Not practical.
At the right time you will meet someone who is really meant for you.
Dont make yourself so sad.
Letting go means finding whats right and good for you. If his the one, in the end fate will bring you back together.
For now, date someone else, have fun and meet people....
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2014): Give him a "call" and see how he's doing. Tell him you miss him and let him hear your voice. I know that sounds old-fashioned, but you get to hear his voice too!
Concentrate more on getting in-touch instead of worrying about other girls. Invite him over to your house and spend some time together. Sometimes romance lasts only over the summer; so be prepared just in-case.
Be sure you're making friends, and not just all wrapped up in a boy.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (11 September 2014):
no matter what you might think..it's not always all about you. Maybe that's harsh and udeserved but if he wants to see other girls, that's his business. Why even bring it up to him at all. If you are his 'true love' he will be there for you and not see other girls. If he does nt see you as his one and only then it wasn't meant to be anyway. Let sleeping dogs lie. They'll either continue to sleep or they'll bark and bite.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2014): Are you still in contact? Just seems weird that while you had all summer off neither have you have made any effort to see each other. To be perfectly honest if you haven't seen someone in two months it's about time you had a chat to see if he still wants to be in a relationship - and you need to consider the same.
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