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writes:Hi well two years ago I met Jonathon on vacation we hung out a lot at the hotel and all. Nothing happened and he gave me his e mail,cell,and house phone number.It was sad for me though because he is from England and I'm from America. I know we may never meet again until we are old enough and on our own but I really want to keep our friendship going for a long time. The last time I talked to him on the phone was a year ago but we e mail often almost more than once a month. I like once a month though because then we don't get annoyed or tired of each other etc.We are just friends but i do have feelings but how can I keep our friendship alive and not scare him off?? When I'm older I plan to study abroad in England and hope to see him atleast once. Since two years I haven't seen what he looks like and he hasn't either. We both are going to send the other pictures but i haven't yet. It's just i don't want him to take my picture and show his friends and be like" Aye boys look at this american girl i picked up". You know I know he isn't like that but then again you never know. We tell each other everything and ask the other for advice on friends,crushes, and he asks me about girls and these girl friends he has haha. And at the end the usually saysJonathonxxor Jonathonxdoes that mean anything? I've always just been like okay i'll say x or xx too you know. I know we both liked eachother on vaca. We flirted a lot too by the way. So any tips??
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reader, Helpful Hillary  +, writes (28 August 2008):
If he’s still replying to you then that’s a good sign. To me it doesn’t seem like you need to change anything! Your getting on well and your talking to each other a lot so he doesn’t seem to be losing any interest. If you want to keep him interested then my advice is to be yourself it interested him on holiday. If you’re hoping to come to England one day then that’s great but remember don’t build all your hopes up as he may not see it that way. If you want him to know that you like him then go ahead and tell him. The worst thing that could happen is that he only sees you as a great friend but then you’ve won yourself a best friend for life. When he sends you the picture say he looks good and that you can’t wait to see him again one day hopefully then when you send your picture he will reply back saying the sort of same thing the that’s when you jump in and tell him that even though you haven’t seen him for a long time you still think of him! Good luck
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