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writes: hi im very confused i'm in a relationship, i love the person im with but i don't in some ways.the only trouble is i have children involved but i have had alot of hurt throughout all the relationships i have been in i have always been physically hurt.there is this boy i met on the internet i really like him but there is 2 problems and that is 1 he is only 15 years old and 2 because of me being in a relationship.i would be very greatful if you could give me a little advice.thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): If he is only 15 you would be well advised to just let him slide on by, especially if you are even 18, and have children of your own. At 15, he is very, very young - too young.
If you have problems in your relationship with the man you are with, you need to work on them, with him. The place to start is to talk to him, openly, in an honest, but non-accusing or judgmental way, letting him know how you feel and asking for his perspective, and the changes you would like to see.
If you are going to continue to be with your current partner, that is the place to focus your energies.
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reader, crazyone +, writes (7 August 2007):
Well,if you're already in love with this guy and have kids in it you must love him moe then this 15 year old if you haven't already of done something.Also you have kids!! Just think about how your kids will be if they keep seeing other guys in thier life. You don't know who this person on the internet is.You most likely just have think you like him becasue he's something new.You should stay with the guy you're dating now.You don't have to like everything about someone to love them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): Forget it. and stop going on the net. i have just lost my partner of 7 years due to him being online.
wake up.internet is fake, fantasy and corrupt.
if your happy, you shudnt be chatting. end of
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