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writes:Okay, so me and this guy (let's call him Jay) were going out for about 5 months, everything was perfect, I was crazy about him and he was crazy about me, don't get me wrong, we had fought previously but we were at a stage where it couldnt be better. Until I went and screwed up. One night, one of my really close guy mates (let's call him Mike) admitted that he had feelings for me and told me he was serious about me. I lost my mind for a second and told him I liked him back, because at that moment I begun to develop feelings for him :(So while this was happening, things became awkward with Jay and I decided to break up with him. Then later everyone was finding out about my 'affair' with mike so for some reason I told jay everything and he took me back. But when all this was happening I still had feelings for mike. So in the end I ended it for good as I thought it wasn't fair to go out with him while I liked someone else. Now a month on, I have realised I am still in love with him :/ but mike still likes me and Im not sure how I feel about him coz I don't think a relationship between me and mike would work the way it did with Jay. I love him and hate what I did. Plus now, he likes his horrible ex who constantly bullies me for in her words 'being better than her at everything'. Argh! Please give some advice on how I can get Jay back, I love himBtw please don't call me a slut I have had a lot of major health problems at the moment so my head has been a but messed up and I am only a teenage girl xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Bethf97 +, writes (12 August 2011):
Bethf97 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much for the second comment but at the moment I don't need to get involved with teachers, I'm in enough of a messa already but thanks for the support.
And that's what I keep thinking, Bernard, but Word got round last week that I liked Jay and Then 10 minutes later, he likes his ex again. So I begin to feel like I have no chance, I know it seems as if I am playing a game, but I'm not I'm just in a bad situation( through my own fault I know) and I'm confused and hesitant to make mistakes, I'm not playing a game because these feelings are in my head alone. Please give me advice :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2011): You are not a slut honey!! You are young and even as adults we get confused!! Don't be so hard on yourself. Love is hard and it takes years and years to figure out things!!Ps. If his ex is bullying you, a great thing to do is to get evidence of it (facebook posts printed out etc, or whatever) and show it to your principal or parents who will show it to your school..) because I PROMISE that scares the hell outa these stupid mean girls who try to hurt you and they will stop!! They will be terrified if their parents are called in and they will never EVER say anything again!
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