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writes:My friend asked me to go to a party with her.. I went. I met this guy. He was really cute. A real stud.. graduated and was a popular football player. We did a lot of stuff together and he seemed like he cared. Which i'm stupid to think he would, because we have a 5 year age difference. But, I mean, I thought he'd at least talk to me. Haven't heard a word from him since.. it's been almost 4 days. I can't stop thinking about that night.. I'm starting to really like him. What do i do?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 February 2012):
 Sweetheart... sit down you are about to get a very hard lesson from Aunt SVC.... (that's me)
If I was with you, we'd go out for starbucks hot chocolate and a cookie.. and I would tell you that you just learned a very very hard and painful lesson about being a teen girl.
And that is that TEEN BOYS are hormonally driven most of the time and if offered any sort of physical contact they will take it even if they don't LIKE the girl that is offering it.
Then they will tell all their friends... and you will get hammered by them... wanting more sexual favors... and even if you didn't do much more than kiss him they will think you did and still bug you.
He's probably not going to call you.....
If you are 13 and he is 18 he can go to jail for touching you sweetheart.... if you are 15 and he is 20 he can go to jail still.... if you had sex with him it's called statutory rape... because you are below the age of consent.
Please know that while it feels good physically to do these things with boys, after it's done, emotionally you will feel crummy.... and it's NOT worth the emotional pain.
do you like him because he's rude and didn't call you?
I ask this because I want you to THINK long and HARD about WHY you like him..,..
he's good looking
he's older
he's..... (you add things)
then think about all the mean things:
he's disrespectful (he didn't call)
he's a user (he didn't call)
he's a liar (if he said he liked you and he will call and he does not.... that's LIES)
go have a really really good cry... and keep us posted honey.
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reader, landomando +, writes (14 February 2012):
Sorry I am a football player. I dont wanna sound like a jerk but I mean its not just football players that do this. Guys hook up with girls. and thats that. No call no nothing. But its knda messed up that hes 5 years older then you.................... Dont like him. Realtionships that start off like yours would dont work out. You start slow date get to know each other then start doing "stuff". My advice find someone who goes to your school and you can date and get to know. A nice Guy!!!!!! not a stud...
Good luck!
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