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writes: I'm 18 years old and I fatasize over my 24 year old sister-in-law. Shes married to my 28 year old brother.I want her so bad and I don't know what to do about it. I think she likes me, but I don't really know. help! What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): Widen your search huh? I'm sure there are other women with whom you can have similar feelings which are not technically part of your family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): Stay away from her. It is not realistic you will ever really hook up with your brothers wife and if you did it would most likely lead to a lot of drama. You will just have to settle for masturbating to thoughts/pictures of her!
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (20 February 2008):
You don't do anything. She is your sister in law.
Are there no other women you could be dating right now?
You don't control who you are attracted to, but you do control what fantasies you indulge in, and what actions you plan to take.
Start going out to places where you can meet women, and start dating real women to keep yourself occupied, instead of spending you time pining, being a victim of your hormones.
I doubt you "love" her. Sounds like "lust" to me.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): At 18 your emotions are all over the place. This infactuation will pass with your sister in law. She is after all married to your brother at the end of the day. Family stick together - they don't go around breaking up their marriages!!! As for her liking you - yeah she prob does - ONLY tho as her husband's brother and nothing more. I'm sure there are plenty of girls your age, who are single and available who would only love to go out with you.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (20 February 2008):
You are courting trouble if you do that. Kill that desire in you . If you cannot , I suggest you move out from that place.
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