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writes:Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a few years now and everything in great, we're stronger than ever and Im sure he's "the one", my problem is this:A couple of months ago a new guy joined my firm and Ive developed a stupid crush on him...we've hardly ever spoken so its totally a looks thing..Id never cheat so I go out of my way to avoid him, really he must think im the rudest girl because I dont even say hello to him...but I cant stop dreaming about him, hes soooo HOT! Is it normal to feel like this? I totally love my boyfriend so why am I so attracted to this guy??
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX  +, writes (6 October 2007):
 Physical attraction is normal, so don't worry about it. It's only a big deal if you make it that way. Just dont act on it.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 Hey it's perfectly natural to have a crush, even when you are in love with someone it will pass and like you have said you would not cheat and you are going out of your way to stay clear of him so there is no problem.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (5 October 2007):
You need to develope the ability to be around people your attracted to without fear that you'll act on those feeling. There are a lot of people that have chrisma but that does mean they or other need act on their feeling. Unfortunately some people with chrisma misuse their power, but many don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): I dunno... It's ok to notice attractive people... it's a concern when you start fantasizing about them or thinking about them all of the time because it detracts from your relationship and your attraction to your main squeeze. Maybe if you talked to this guy a bit, the mystery would wear off and you wouldn't be so interested. Because no matter how hot he is, I am sure your man is hotter... right?
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