A
female
 ,
anonymous
writes:hi, well this year and last year i have been unbleivably in love with a guy called richard and i never actually told him and i thought there was no way anythin was gonna happen between me and him and i tried for 5 months to get over him but it didnt work and someone told me that if u cant get someone out of ure head mabey they are supposed to be there so i tried it again and i actually for some strange reason i rang him up and told him everythin i told him ive liked him for over a year and that i loved him so much and i asked him was there any point of me likin him and he sed mabey.Today his mate who is my mate callum asked him wot he thought of me and he sed i dont fancy her i just like her as a mate and calum told me and i was heartbroken again even though i promised myself i wouldnt let myself be broken again over a guy but ive just had a converstaion with him over msn and he sed it wasnt his fault and basically he dosnt care and i no 1 thing that i cant just be his mate becuase all i would want is more so please help me ! what do i do i cant get him out of my head and i love him so much what do i do !! thanks
View related questions:
heartbroken, msn Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, AngelofLove +, writes (13 March 2007):
 There is no easy way of getting him out of your head. It really hurts when your feelings are not returned.
He was honest with you and told you that he only likes you as a friend. You cannot force someone to fancy you.
Stay away for a while, try not to see him and keep busy as much as possible so that you do not have constant reminder. Thinking about him will only make you more miserable. When you start thinking about him, remind yourself that he does not love you for a few seconds then think other thoughts quickly and go out to do something positive or productive to get you mind occupied.
Go out and allow yourself to move on, you will find someone who does like you and can return your love.
A
female
reader, cd206 +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Unfortunately the person who doesn't want to be in the relationship always gets their own way and you're right that you need to accept it. I would say that however much you feel like you'll never get over it you will. In these situations a lot of it comes down to attitude. If you tell yourself he's your one true love and nobody will ever live up to him then nobody ever will and you'll be heartbroken forever. However, if you tell yourself he wasn't that special and try to carry on as normal with your life then you'll feel much better for it. Give yourself a grieving period but tell yourself that after a certain date you will not allow yourself to be sad over this guy anymore. It might sound a stupid idea but it will work if you really try hard to believe.
CD
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): You can't force someone to have feelings for you back, no matter how much you them to. He might change his mind about you in the future but for now he doesn't seem to care that much about you and your feelings towards him. The best thing to do would be move on.
...............................
|
