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writes: Hi, I have fallen completely in love with someone I cannot have. He is older than me and married. We have been flirting for some time and over xmas temptation got the better of me. I like him and i know its not going to go anywhere as he loves his wife and I should feel bad about it. I dont know what to do because he said he wanted me since we started flirting, but not to txt him and he'll stay at work longer which he wanted me to do before this happend. I dont know if its the fact that he's with someone is exciting (although that sounds mean) or that i do like him... Please dont shout at me.... :)
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (29 December 2005):
 Hi dearie, compliments of the season to u.
i think deep down u know that this wont work. you indicated here that u know he loves his wife. With that statement he has made it clear to you now that he isnt thinking of leaving her. It is never advisable to get involved with married men even if they say their marriage has turned sour because most of the time they dont leave their wives. They feel they have a stronger commitment there and most of them wouldnt consider leaving their kids.
You also indicated in your posting that u feel a sense of thrill because he is with someone else. But what u should consider is the hurt u will feel when he goes back to his wife. That should be your main concern here. You will also have wasted alot of ur time while dating this man and might miss out the opportunity to meet other great guys who would have loved u and be devoted to u only.
Its your decision really but i would advise u not to go into this.
Take care dear
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