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writes:[Moderator's note: I have combined your two questions into one.]a yr and a half ago my boyfriend cheated on me. I left him for that period we recently decided to try again. the only problem is he works 7 days a wk. then goes out drinking calls me accusing me of cheating. and only comes home to sleep and have sex. i have never cheated on him. he also accuses me of sleeping with his roommate. what should i do?* * *my ex bf and i are trying again after he cheated on me after 5 yrs of a relationship. He don't satisfy me. And I have been having dreams, and having fantisies of making love to his roomamte. And the roommate askes me to have sex with him allot and I laugh it off. We spend allot of time together, we have allot of fun together. Is he really interested or just saying that? I am so attracted to him. But have never cheated. Please help....
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reader, jennlynn27 +, writes (8 June 2008):
jennlynn27 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for your advice and thats what i have been telling myself. but its just doing it thats the problem. i love him so much. thats the hard part.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): I suggest you break up with your boyfriend. I did not work in the past, your are back together and it is not working. You are miserable and unhappy, he is jealous; accusing you of cheating.
Where is the love or the future for this relationship?
Delaying breaking off, is just making matters worse and creating additional agony.
As you state you enjoy the roommates company but feel you do not want to cheat.
Well, get your freedom girl and start enjoying the company of which ever guys you feel like. Find a guy that will love you and care for you and that you can be yourself with.
Don't waste your life away trying to fix something that cannot be fixed.
Good luck!
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