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writes:I have a dilemma, my aunts and uncles. All help is GREATLY appreciated, because I am truly stuck and I feel so lost, I have about 32 different emotions running through my system and I always end up like grabbing my face and telling myself to cut it out!My ex boyfriend and I first started dating in November 08, we broke up in Feb 09. We have still remained in contact, though we had a pretty nasty break up! I have never lost my feelings between him, though he lives about two hours away from here, the distance has definitely put a strain on our relationship. We have managed to work through our problems, and we still love each other, but have no idea when we will see each other again. My parents don't want us together.Last month, I met another guy, he was very sweet to me and I basically fell right to his arms. Our connection has grown greatly, each day that creeps by, we get closer. The only problem I have is that he is moving in about three weeks, and I don't know if I should continue to go on with this, because I know if I get super close to him, I will be even more hurt in the end, but I want to spend as much time as I can with him.Neither of the boys know about each other really, they've both heard me speak each others name, but they don't know all the rest of the feelings involved. My ex boyfriend basically thinks I still love him, and the other guy, thinks I have feelings for him.Which are both very VERY true, and I'm so stuck! I don't even know what to do, One is leaving, and the other one has already left. Do I cut both of them off?!HELPHELPHELP! please.
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reader, Vixey  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 If one guy has already gone & you can't think of a suitable way around being with him, then forget him.
The guy who is about to leave though, hhmmmm, can you not go with him? Does he have to leave?
Think things through carefully, don't just think "omg i'm going to be alone!"
If you can't be with either of them then have a little YOU time, find out what YOU really want from life.
Answer some of those questions that you've been putting off.
Not only will you grow spiritually but you'll come to realise that not everything in life revolves around men, you'll become stronger & more confident learning about yourself, this has only got to be a good thing for you.
Smiles - Vixey. :)
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