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writes:Ok, so i am 19 years old and confuse right now. Since i was 15, i starts watching gay porn and found myself horny and turned on everytime watching it. I also always fantasizing myself with guy when i masturbate.The problem is, i am physically attracted to women. I'm in love with some girls until know, and i always enjoy myself seeing pretty girls, but i still confuse if i am sexually attracted to girls or not, because i never had sex with girls and doesn't horny when i watch straight porn or seeing naked women. However, i twice tried to having sex with gay guy and find myself disgusted and turned off when we have a sexual intercourse, it made me confuse because i enjoy watching gay porn but turned off when having a real gay sex.So, am i gay, straight or bisexual? i really hope i am straight because i want to fall in love with girl and get married yet i never interested to having a relationship with guy. Please help me. Thanks. I really appreciate your answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2011): If you're not getting turned on by naked women, then I don't see how you could be straight.
It seems as if you're disgusted at yourself for having wanted to have sex with a man and not so much that you're not attracted.
Based on what you said, you want to be straight. You don't want to be gay. Don't judge yourself so harshly. Times are changing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, i really really appreciate your answer.. :)
It makes me kinda relieved to read all your answer.
Maybe i'm just a bit still concern in fact that i am sexually don't know yet if i interested in woman too since i am not excited by seeing girls naked pic or straight porn (well, you guys already makes me believe that porn is different with our real sexual preferences)..
And for your consideration, i am living on conservative country where people still judge your sexuality as a taboo stuff (the values here, if somebody found you attracted to any unstraight stuff, then u're gay). so, it's kinda sucks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): You are not gay if you do not like sex or "love" with men. You have a fetish.
I like to watch lesbian porn but am not interested in having sex or a relationship with women.
Lots of Men and Women are into weird sexual things...so what you like gay porn. I'm a girl and get turned on by watching men have sex in porn but in real life I think its disgusting. No worries you are still young. Try having an relationship with a woman and see what happens you may be surprised to find that you don't like that either...Life is full of trial and error....When I was 19 I had no idea of what I really liked and did not like sexually. I'm 31 now and still figuring things out...Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): Well, try having sex with a girl. If you find it not enjoyable, then you might be gay. Just a simple trial and error. I always said that sexuality is not black or white, gay or straight. There is more to it. So go out there and have fun ;D
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (24 July 2011):
 You're straight. Porn is PORN, real life is REAL LIFE.
Wwatching isn't the same as doing in this case. I watch a lot of weird porn if I can be so honest to admit, but never in a lifetime would I find the same things even remotedly attractive in real life. In fact, the thought of a real live event as such would disgust me (yepp, I watch weird things). But when masturbating, and building up a fantasy, the rules are completely different.
I'm bisexual, and enjoy being with women, but lesbian porn bores me. Does nothing. I also love passionate sex, with the simplest ingerdient: love. However watching someone make love in porn is, again, boring. It does nothing when I masturbate.
So, real life preferences, and masturbation fantasies, are two different worlds. Don't mix them up. If I was to do any of the things I fantasize about I'd be locked up in jail right now!
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