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writes:hey, recently i started dating this guy, lets just call him H. well, it was all going great until we stopped seeing each other so often.. then it just fizzled out.. so one night i was bored and decided "screw it" and kissed with one of my best mates who admitted he had liked me for a while now. I really dont know what to do because H is wondering what i did. And the other guy says i have to make a decision. its okay when im with H. but when im not he is always really arsey with me :( so what do i do? i really like this other lad. but he doesnt want to play third wheel. help? Reply to this Question
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reader, chirpychicken +, writes (14 April 2007):
 Hi,
Well i know people say it's nice to be spoilt for choice n everything but it sucks!! i have been there too and i chose the one i had more fun with. The one who i felt more comfortable around and the one who treats me better. H needs to stop being so overpossesive but at the same time you have to make sure you are not spending too much time apart. I mean, how often do you see this guy? it might feel right with your "best mate" but are you sure that you want your best mate or its something that just happened till something better comes along? you dont want to ruin what you have as a friend with your mate but at the same time if you have feelings then you seriously need to think about whether it would work. You will know when it feels right just go with the guy you feel more comfortable around. If not then stay friends with your mate, finish things with H and let him move on and find somebody who you truley want. dont be with them for the sake of it theres too much fun to be had girl!
Hope you sort things out hun
Take care x
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