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During sex I like to be on top, but he likes to be in control... where is our happy medium?

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Question - (17 November 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

do guys prefer to be on top or for a girl to ride them? for me personally i like to be on top but he prefers to be in control how can we do both at the same time?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

What ever happened to taking turns?

Flynn 24

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2008):

helpjayne agony auntTry reverse cowgirl. That way he's holding you from behind so he's the one in control, plus his hands are pulling you onto him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

I prefer top also but we have also tryed some fun thing (i blind folded him and he laid on the bed and i after that i did as i wanted to with him it was fun because he never knew what i would do next) blush blush

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

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well hes been wondering if thers a way where i could be on top and he still has control of my bouncing is there a certain position/movement?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2008):

Why don't you wear a blindfold while being on top.

You get to be in control but he gets to tell you what to do and touch you where he likes...

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (17 November 2008):

Fatherly Advice agony auntI'm not sure I can answer this without blushing to death. Control has nothing to do with position. Personally I prefer her on top. It leaves my hands free, with plenty of access to all the fun parts. . . . . . . blush

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