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writes: How do you know when to let a relationship go?Ive been seeing a lovely man for 6 months now, we see each other once a week and at weekends. I enjoy his company a lot and enjoy spending time with him and we have a fun sex life. But I dont feel like I am in love with him yet. He is a kind caring man and would do anything for me. He is quite sensitive to my emotions and tries to fix things if he can. Just this weekend I was upset by something he did, which he realised and felt awful about and talked to me about it straight away. He has all these attributes which I respect yet I just dont seem to be bowled over with love. I dont know whether I should break up with him so that he can be free to find someone who can love him madly as I dont seem to yet, and I would have thought by 6 months I should. I care about him a lot and want the best for him.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 Totally agree with Shandy Pop, is the spark is not there yet, call it day.
Delaying it may hurt him even more as emotions grow for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): You want the best for him, what about you? You have a life too. If you don't feel wow after 6 months then i doubt if you ever will, but that is my opinion.
I know how you feel because i was with someone like that, he was definatley in love with me but i felt nothing. I just didn't enjoy sex with him at all because i didn't fancy him. We split up after 5 months and he is with someone who loves and cares for him and i am the same. I think you have to be true to yourself and explain to him just how you feel and walk away.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): You want the best for him, what about you? You have a life too. If you don't feel wow after 6 months then i doubt if you ever will, but that is my opinion.
I know how you feel because i was with someone like that, he was definatley in love with me but i felt nothing. I just didn't enjoy sex with him at all because i didn't fancy him. We split up after 5 months and he is with someone who loves and cares for him and i am the same. I think you have to be true to yourself and explain to him just how you feel and walk away.
Take care
xx
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